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aud_friggsdottir
05-06-2005, 02:29 AM
Hail All!


In our fast paced world, we tend to neglect the most beautiful expression of our Ancestors: our children. Many families are at a loss on how to involve children in our Way because many of us were not raised Odinist. In the following, some ideas will be put forth, so Odinist families can begin building the future of our Folk.

Morning

What better way to wake up in the morning, then to great Sunna? Have the child (ren) go out in the morning and greet the breaking of a new day. This can be done with the greeting in the Book of Blotar:

Hail to the Sun!
Hail the dawn.
May your vitality feed me and cheer me and nourish my mind, body, and Soul.
Hail to you life giver.
Hail the Gods, Hail Light, Hail the people of the Light.
May your energy be with me as I go about my Life.
Hail! Hail! Hail!

Rune Galdor and Rune Postures

Children are wonderful with this practice. Children do not have the barriers Adult have that make us feel awkward or uncomfortable with Runic Galdors and Postures. When I first tried this, the children were absolutely enthralled! They did not hesitate to participate. Our Hearth members balked at the idea. It is vital we not let our children build the barriers we have to practicing our Ancient Folkways. One Hearth member actually was embarrassed when the children were so willing and the Hearth member was not. Foster this good practice with your children. It will give them a strong foundation in the Runes. This can be done after the greeting of Sunna! A powerful way to start the day!

Schooling

Whether your children go to a public school or are home-schooled, being an active part of your children’s education is a must. Involve yourself in your child’s schooling. For the outbound-schooled child, on heritage related days, such as Leif Erikkson Day or Tartan Day or even Jul and Ostara; go and present a little on the day the way we celebrate such holidays or a bit of history. This will not only make your children feel secure in their schooling, it will also, put forth a positive ‘face’ for our Way. Maybe bring a traditional European Craft, dish or story or do a short presentation on some facet of the holiday. The teacher will be very happy to get some help from the parent and the children (and teacher) will be exposed to something they probably knew very little about. If you are unable to get to their school for a this type of activity, when the holidays come around, help your child make something traditional to share with his or her class. We must remember that more then likely our children will be the only heathen children in the class. Our children want to feel like they belong with out having to give up who they are. What better way to achieve this then to bring a little of our Way to their classroom.

For Home Schooled children, a great idea is to set aside a day for Folk Ways. Things like Folk Art, Heathen Poetry, Edda Studies, etc… Home schooling can get daunting, especially when you are home schooling more then one child. Take a day every week and do something Folkish with your child. Remember that many things are ancestrally remembered that we can awaken. Things like looming, cross-stitching, candle making, quilting, weaving, braiding, leather working, wood working, ancient games (Tafl), etc… We have this in our blood; we need only relearn these ancient arts. How powerful it would be to give our children the head start we did not get?

Story Time!

Children remember stories. During Winter Fire week, my daughter recited a story from the Northvegr website that I read over a year prior. It was amazing how much she remembered. My other daughter recited the story of the theft of Thor’s Hammer. Ancestral stories touch our children on a very deep level, and very often these stories carry with them our Nine Noble Virtues. Set aside time everyday to read a story to your children from our Heritage. Stories on the Northvegr website under Heathen Fairy Tales are absolutely wonderful. They are the Grimm’s Fairy tales in Heathen Form. Also, the many translations of the Eddas are great for story time. You can find many free translations on the Internet, or use the Larrington translation of the Poetic Edda, it is a wonderful layman translation. Whatever you use, make sure you talk about the characters, message, character challenges and decisions in the stories. This will ensure your child (ren) will get the most out of the story!

Dinner Conversation

The dinner table is the perfect time to have insightful, inspiring conversations. It also can be a time of great enjoyment and entertainment. In Ancient times, Our Folk made quite an affair of meal times; they often hosted friends and extended families around the Hearth. Take this time enjoy your family. Some ideas could be drawing a God or Goddesses name out of a hat and then talk about them. This can be done with the Nine Noble Virtues as well. Also, one can use ‘topic starters’ with the hat idea. Of course talking about your day, challenges, solutions, funny stories, etc…are always great, especially if one relates how he or she pulled the solution from the NNV or using intuition.

Bedtime

Bedtime is an important time. Many times the Gods and Goddesses speak to us through our dreams. Take this time to let the children go to sleep thinking of Our Way. This could also be Story Time as mentioned above. Parts of the story make speak deeply to the child and may manifest in a dream. Another idea is to have each child choose a rune, talk about the meaning, and go to sleep thinking about it. In the morning, have the children keep a dream journal and write or draw their dreams. The Gods and Goddesses are strong in our children, and often, children have a better connection with them, foster that! Finally, greet the moon with:

Hail to you whose works are deep.
Hail to you Gods and Goddesses of the Moon
Your light makes us look inward, your light reveals that unseen by day.
Deep and secret things you show.
Hail silver orb.
May I look inward and outward.
Hail.

The future lies in the Souls of our children. They carry the line of our Folk and need to remember it through the above activities. As Odinist parent, we need to foster, inspire, teach, and nurture the Odinist child. They carry a fire that burns bright; we must tend it, so it burns into their children and their children’s children.


Hail Frigga Nurturer of the Odinist Family! Hail the Children of Our Folk!
Kathy
Donar’s Hearth AOR (V)
References:
Book of Blotar , The Odinic Rite

Hveðrungur Kveldúlfsson
05-06-2005, 02:42 AM
Great thread Kathy, tons of well thought out advice there. I know I will for sure follow this when I someday have children.....if Frey brings the right woman into my life :p

Sigurd
05-07-2005, 03:40 PM
Thx. Gives me a good insight, too, in a general line how to bring up my children, when, at some point, I shall have some (now being 16, rather young for it, but maybe in 6 or 7 years I shall start to follow some of this "codex"). I will not make the mistake my parents made with me (Christian upbringing; luckily as a divorced, re-married couple my mother would not drag me along to church anyway, a place I cannot stand.). My children shall not have to find out for themselves, but shall be taught in the first place what to believe.

freya3
11-06-2005, 06:34 PM
Thanks Kathy for posting this! I have been looking everywhere for a place to see how I can start teaching my little girl and our baby on the way little ways to praise the Gods and Goddesses on a daily basis. Being raised Catholic, as a child, I did enjoy the time I had w/my parents @ night and during the day talking about the Bible stories and learning prayers. Too bad I wasted 30 years going to Sunday school and going to church every week, I hated it!!

Any other things you have or sites to visit, please post!

Thanks again,
Carla

Fenris
12-17-2005, 11:03 PM
I plan on using this stuff when I have children, and I thank you for posting it, it's all very well thought out and definitely seems to be a comprehensive way of raising good, heathen children.

beowulf
12-19-2005, 02:38 PM
I intend to inculcate my 7 mo. old son in Heathen ways starting when he's a bit older, and some of this advice will no doubt help.
He was namefasted on his 9th day of life, sprinkled with hallowed water from my family's odal land in these parts, his first and middle names after ancestors was bound to him, he is the first generation of my family to be born Heathen in over 1000 years no doubt. :D
Some day he will of course be allowed to choose his own faith or none at all, but he will be raised Heathen under my roof.
His mother, my wife, is secular, non-religious, but supports my faith and raising our son as such. She's quite enlightened like that :) .

Thrungva
04-09-2006, 12:59 AM
My daughter is 5, now, and about a year ago, I made flash cards for her. She calls them "the god cards". And she loves them. I bought some blank flash cards and pasted pictures of the gods and goddesses to them. I started by just teaching her the names.
Once she had the names down pat, I started teaching her the names of other things in the pics. I started simple. If Odin was pictured with his ravens, I'd say "What are the names of Odin's ravens?" or when looking at a pic of Thor, I'd say "What is the name of Thor's hammer?", etc.
Then if the pic was from a story, I'd ask her what was going on. Example, I have the one of Sif where Loki is standing in the background. She knows that it refers to when Loki cuts off Sif's hair.

Each time she masters a different aspect, I teach her something new.

She absolutely loves learning and is so proud of herself when she completes the deck.

One of my boyfriend's friends was visiting us and he had her do the cards while he was there. First, he'd show the card to his friend and say tell me about this pic. Then he would ask Valkyrie about the card. By the time he was done, I think she put his friend to shame. He was embarassed that a five year old knew more than he did.

Archer
04-10-2006, 01:48 AM
I am raising my daughter to be Heathen, so this is all very good info. Thanks, ladies of the OR! :yes:

Madchen_Blau
04-11-2006, 08:02 PM
Thank your for all your insight into this topic. I have a question; every year around Yule time my son who is 8 gets asked by his teacher to bring something about Yule in for the class to see. First thing he thinks to bring are his rune cards. Of course I tell him no because they are way to special to take to school. I would like to have a story book but cannot find any that aren't filled with Wicca fluff. Would you have an idea for something he could take. The school would not let kids bring food that isn't sealed; otherwise he would bring rune cookies or a Yule log cake.

-Jenny

aud_friggsdottir
04-11-2006, 09:01 PM
Thank your for all your insight into this topic. I have a question; every year around Yule time my son who is 8 gets asked by his teacher to bring something about Yule in for the class to see. First thing he thinks to bring are his rune cards. Of course I tell him no because they are way to special to take to school. I would like to have a story book but cannot find any that aren't filled with Wicca fluff. Would you have an idea for something he could take. The school would not let kids bring food that isn't sealed; otherwise he would bring rune cookies or a Yule log cake.

-Jenny

This is a great book:

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/159017125X/103-0420377-7010216?v=glance&n=283155

It is D'Aulaire's Book of Norse Myths. We have the older version, Norse Gods and Giants and my kids LOVE it. I would say he could take that, but for specifically Yule...I would hunt around on the net for a nice Yule story.... Yule is about Baldur's Rebirth and the Rebirth of the Sun, so that story would be appropriate. Also, a Hearth Sister went to her son's school and did a short presentation on Yule, did a craft and brought a snack (which sounds like schools have gotten strict on that ). I am sure the teacher would welcome anything you bring :). It is a real opportunity to expose children to something positive regarding our Folkways, especially with all the negativity that we are often portrayed with....

FFF
Kathy

Katia
04-11-2006, 09:17 PM
I bought this one for my daughter recently:

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0823415694/103-6559898-3610210?%5Fencoding=UTF8&v=glance&n=283155

Good book, nice and basic for the younger crowd. My daughter loves the vibrant pictures!

Archer
04-11-2006, 10:22 PM
D'Aulaire's Norse Gods and Giants was on my elementary school's shelf and I read it many times. It is really great. Seeing it here was like seeing an old friend! Thanks, Ms. Kathy!

Madchen_Blau
04-11-2006, 11:54 PM
Thanks, that looks like a really good book. Very colorful and well drawn picture! I will pick this one up this month. I have a long list of book I always want and this one moved to the top. I just order a book for the Kids( i have 3) called Norse Mythology A-Z: A Young Reader's Companion (http://www.oxbowbooks.com/results.cfm/q/norse/qt/All/ST/QS/StartRow/11). I am really hoping that this will give them a lot of inspiration. There father will read to them but I think picture would help.

Thanks again

-Jenny

aud_friggsdottir
04-12-2006, 12:13 PM
Thanks, that looks like a really good book. Very colorful and well drawn picture! I will pick this one up this month. I have a long list of book I always want and this one moved to the top. I just order a book for the Kids( i have 3) called Norse Mythology A-Z: A Young Reader's Companion (http://www.oxbowbooks.com/results.cfm/q/norse/qt/All/ST/QS/StartRow/11). I am really hoping that this will give them a lot of inspiration. There father will read to them but I think picture would help.

Thanks again

-Jenny

Hey! Thanks for the link, those books look GREAT! A little pricey (one was $90 :eek: ), but sometimes we just have to splurge :yes: !

FFF
Kathy

Madchen_Blau
04-12-2006, 12:44 PM
Yeah I think they are all out of print. He orders them from the publisher.

I just found a really good site for the little ones.
Europe of Tales (http://www.europeoftales.net/site/en/index.html) The stories my me chuckle.

RoseQueen
07-05-2008, 01:44 PM
Hail All!
I agree with you in enriching your lives and your families and friends with keeping the lore, traditions and all that is beautiful alive for the future.