I need help.

[Vallen]

I am in some serious need for help.
It feels like my whole spiritual world has become a chaotic type of void. I think that is the best way to describe it.

Should I try to organize it, or should I let it be?

-Vallen

[Gwynyvyr]

I went through that for a few months.
Short version:
Been Hellenic Recon for around 30 years. Met a guy and he was Asatru. The relationship didn't work out, but for some reason, I could not go back to my own path, yet I felt there was just *too much* going on around me to focus on Asatru.
So, I just took a 3 month break.
Period.
Didn't read anything on religion, spirituality, etc.
Just focused on my life and straightening out a lot of other issues going on.
Then...dipped my toe in tentatively...then my foot, etc.


I am feeling better about everything now and am back on track as far as my path is concerned.
You might try the *take a break* thing. Maybe just do it for 30 days instead of 3 months, but see what works for you!
Good luck and I hope this helped some.

[Schwarzesonne]

Am confused. What do you mean by "organize?" Can you be a bit more detailed?

[Don vonMilikowski]

I am in some serious need for help.
It feels like my whole spiritual world has become a chaotic type of void. I think that is the best way to describe it.

Should I try to organize it, or should I let it be?

-Vallen


Welcome to the real world.......

Do as you see fit, no one can help you with what goes on in your head, anyone who says different reads too much and does not live enough. Only YOU knows what is right for you, no one can help you define that......

Sorry, that's the way I have always viewed things..... You can see the path, but do you have the strength to walk it?

[pinlighter]

Honestly, you'd have to tell us more than this!!!!

[Vallen]

I am sorry for being so vague in my question. But I do believe that things have straightened out a bit... and yes, the break did help quite a bit. even though it was only for about a week.

My major problem was, I know it is cliche, but love. My girlfriend's parents kindof found a reason to hate me, and attempted to take legal action against me... long story.

But, I realize now that her dad is just an egotistical control freak... but he cant do anything to me. in fact, he is scared.

So Im probably going to be back for a while.

-Vallen

[Don vonMilikowski]

I am sorry for being so vague in my question. But I do believe that things have straightened out a bit... and yes, the break did help quite a bit. even though it was only for about a week.

My major problem was, I know it is cliche, but love. My girlfriend's parents kindof found a reason to hate me, and attempted to take legal action against me... long story.

But, I realize now that her dad is just an egotistical control freak... but he cant do anything to me. in fact, he is scared.

So Im probably going to be back for a while.

-Vallen


Well if this helps, keep them over 22, found that to be the safest........

Be glad her dad is not me...... 'Nuff said on that......

[Vallen]

I understand, but it would help for me to be over 22 as well.
Considering we are the same age [16], Im not too sure what the problem was.

But thats in the past, all I can do is salvage what I can from the relationship.

Thanks for the advice.

-Vallen

[Don vonMilikowski]

I understand, but it would help for me to be over 22 as well.
Considering we are the same age [16], Im not too sure what the problem was.

But thats in the past, all I can do is salvage what I can from the relationship.

Thanks for the advice.

-Vallen


22 is STILL safe for you.......

Vallen, here is a little secret coming from a father and you can bet to say we all think the same way..... Ain't no one good enough for our daughters, and the thought of things going beyond kissing does not sit right in our throats (even though at 16 and younger we were probably active in more than kissing, it is still our baby girls)...... You will understand when you are walking around with your nails painted and wearing make-up just to sate their need to practice their art form on someone besides the dog.......

And there are plenty of fish in the sea, just watch which pond you fish in or where you cast your rod......

[Vallen]

Understood Don.
I've had quite a few talks with my dad about all of this, but then my father tends to second guess himself.

again, I appreciate the help.

-Vallen

[Katia]

You will understand when you are walking around with your nails painted and wearing make-up just to sate their need to practice their art form on someone besides the dog.......

Now that is funny.. but too true!!

[Bobmac]

You will understand when you are walking around with your nails painted and wearing make-up just to sate their need to practice their art form on someone besides the dog.......After my turn, I had to remind my wife that I used to be "cool." :D

Pretty hard to do in Passion Pink. :lol:

[Don vonMilikowski]

After my turn, I had to remind my wife that I used to be "cool." :D

Pretty hard to do in Passion Pink. :lol:


Dunno about you bro, but I am still cool (at least this is what my kids and friends tell me), just a little heavier.......

Pink is the new black, keep telling yourself that bro, it helps..... Explain orange toe nails to big burley construction workers.

[gefjion]

Orange on the toes is very, very cool this summer :D I still proudly wear all my custom designed jewellry from The Macaroni Collection, although these days my son tends to cringe when he sees it sitting on my dresser.